Community is key.

Human beings are social creatures at our core. We were never intended to bottle up our emotions and trudge through this life alone. Ironically, that is exactly what we tend to do. So often we put on a fake smile and put on a mask each day and portrait a false reality we live in. However, if you haven’t already figured this out, let me tell you, it is exhausting.

There is no shame in confiding and finding comfort in those closest to you. Whether it be friends or family, they are invested in you as a person… the good and the bad. Now, obviously their are limitations, and you don’t want to be a negative nelly 24/7. But, if you need advice, comfort, or just some one-on-one time, do yourself the service of asking for it.

With this being said, lets make sure we are drinking water from the right pond. Evaluate your inner circle, are they pouring into you well? Are they intentional? Do you find yourself growing around them, or shrinking? Friendships can be one of this lifetimes biggest blessings, but that is only if you have developed the right ones. I think it has become the social normalcy to befriend people based off their social media aesthetic, and less based off of who they are and how they make us feel. Friend, please don’t fall into this trap.

Surrounding yourself with uplifting, joyful, and supportive people will have such a wonderful impact on your life. I really encourage you to be bold, and build those connections. Be intentional, and make this a priority in your life. You will be happier for it.

You got this.

-A